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Photo du Jour: The Castle Bench on Which I Said “Yes” – Heidelberg, Germany

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Tucked away on the grounds of the Heidelberg Castle, this handsome stone bench is where I said “yes” one June evening. Shawn knew it was one of my favorite spots in Heidelberg, so he suggested we have a picnic there. As the lights on the castle grounds were illuminated, he surprised me by proposing.

Back then, I didn’t know much about the bench’s symbolism or history. I was simply drawn to its elegant lines, the unusual bird perched on a gingko branch on its backrest, and its tranquil views. I’ve since learned a bit more.

Back in 1919, the bench was placed in a leafy spot in the castle gardens, between the Scheffelterrasse and a fountain (of Neptune or Father Rhine).

Just footsteps away from the bench, there’s a bust of German writer, Johann Wolfgang von Goethe. This is fitting, since Goethe and the bench are linked. Goethe made many visits to Heidelberg, a city with which he was apparently smitten.

The bird carved into the back of the bench is a Hoopoe. This bird is considered a messenger of love in the Orient, which references Goethe’s poetry collection, West-Eastern Divan, which was inspired by Persian culture.

The gingko branch motif on the bench pays homage to Goethe’s poem, Ginkgo biloba. He wrote this in 1815 for Marianne, a friend, or perhaps a love interest:

In my garden’s care and favor
From the East this tree’s leaf shows
Secret sense for us to savor
And uplifts the one who knows.

Is it but one being single
Which as same itself divides?
Are there two which choose to mingle
So that each as one now hides?

As the answer to such question
I have found a sense that’s true:
Is it not my songs’ suggestion
That I’m one and also two?

Where in the World?

Photography & text © Tricia A. Mitchell. All Rights Reserved.

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Hi! My name is Tricia Mitchell. I delight in telling stories about my slow travels through more than 65 countries. Some of my highlights have included sharing meals with locals in Armenia, Cambodia, and Tunisia; sipping sparkling wine with French cousins in Alsace; milking goats in a sleepy Bulgarian village; and training with a Japanese mine-clearance team in Laos. My husband, Shawn, and I are based in France’s Loire Valley.

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14 responses to “Photo du Jour: The Castle Bench on Which I Said “Yes” – Heidelberg, Germany”

  1. Laura Heath Avatar

    So romantic! Congradulations to the two of you! <3 and XO!

    1. Tricia A. Mitchell Avatar

      Thank you, Laura! Yes, this had been one of my favorite spots in Heidelberg long before Shawn proposed… When the sun made its rare appearance on it not long after we met, he said he knew it would be the eventual spot where he’d propose. :)

    1. Tricia A. Mitchell Avatar

      Even though I’m very happy on our grand Southeast Asian adventure, I do at times long for my former home in Heidelberg. This scenic spot and Old World bench are tucked away on the grounds of the Heidelberg Castle. Before I met my husband, I used to walk up to the castle grounds as part of my workout routine. Later, Shawn and I did the 314-stair ascent together. The surrounding garden was supposedly one of Goethe’s favorite places when he visited Heidelberg in the early 1800s.

      1. marinachetner Avatar

        Tricia! HI! So how long will you be in SE Asia for? Are you not returning to Germany? You have so many great photos on your blog that I need to view a post a day. You’re a photographer from way back :) You’ve traveled to so many countries – is this all in order or over a longer period of time?
        I love the story of how your husband proposed at this bench – there is so much history around it, and you are both a part of that! :)

      2. Tricia A. Mitchell Avatar

        We’re planning on being in SE Asia through the beginning of March, and then, we’re not sure where we’ll relocate! We loved life in Europe, but will see where our next life path leads.

        I wish I’d started a blog before 2011! I was fortunate to travel a bit to Europe with my parents, growing up, but my true travel bug thirst wasn’t quenched until I moved to Germany in 2001. I was fortunate to make it to most of western and central Europe, and a bit of North Africa, but would like to explore more of eastern Europe now. Also, South America and Australia await!

        Your comment about us becoming part of the castle garden’s history makes me smile. :-) We had our winter/ceremonial wedding not far from the bench, in that castle’s chapel. In fact, that one year anniversary is approaching on the 17th of this month!

        Hope your week’s been going well, and I look forward to seeing more of your NY photography soon.

      3. marinachetner Avatar

        You two are living the dream – traveling around the world! I posted recently so there are plenty of pics up on my blog!! The 17th is tomorrow (my time). is it not 17th your time?

      4. Tricia A. Mitchell Avatar

        Gosh, I’ve lost track of days and dates since I haven’t been at work, but the anniversary is tomorrow, I’m certain of it! We’re still at Friday the 16th here :) I’m off to enjoy your photography now!

      5. marinachetner Avatar

        Happy Anniversary to you and your husband for the 17th – whenever it rolls around in your part of the world :)

  2. cooleur Avatar
    cooleur

    Beautiful reminiscence.
    Congrat.

    1. Tricia A. Mitchell Avatar

      A special spot, indeed. Thank you for stopping by, cooleur!

      1. cooleur Avatar
        cooleur

        Its a pleasure Tricia.

  3. Kavita Joshi Avatar

    romantic post…God Bless you and your family dear

    1. Tricia A. Mitchell Avatar

      Thank you, Kavita. This bench is indeed a special and romantic spot in Heidelberg, with lots of memories – of a proposal, of picnics and of pondering sessions. :)